Free hatred?

As a non-beleiver in the christian god. I have been told I cannot love. Only hate. Yet, I do not hate as much as I could. I do not hate homosexuals. I do not hate witches. I do not hate people of skin colours different to my own. I do not hate people on the street who mind their own business and leave me to my own. Seems for a "hateful satanist" I have to be brought to hatred. Anton LaVey wrote you cannot force yourself to love everyone, which is true enough, but I also believe on the same token you cannot hate everyone either. Kindness to those who deserve it and hatred to those who earned it. So what earns my hatred? What would make me say "I hate you"? I guess anyone who would go out to harm or annoy me without cause. Anyone who threatens me with violence or other consequences if I do not comply with their unreasonable demands. People who cause physical harm to myself or to those who earned my love and respect. I like to give people I never knew prior a chance. Treat them well and hope to be treated well, but if they treat me badly, then they have used up their chance, but even then I just try to avoid them. Very rarely will I ever physically assault a person. You really have to piss me off to do that. And for me to actually try and kill you? Well, that never happened yet. I hope it never comes to that. I do have a sense of justice, but I use a case by case basis to determine my attitude about other people.

I do not hate what I am told to hate. I hate what I have learned by myself to hate